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Entertaining Kids (and Eating) in Boca Raton, Florida

7 Apr

We just completed our annual trip to Boca Raton for Easter to visit with my in-laws and to enjoy some spring break time away.  I just love it.

First you all know I am such a warm weather loving person and that the beach IS my place of utter peace and harmony.  This is our one yearly getaway so we really all look forward to it and hate when it flies by all too quickly.  And really what was once a really tough travel trip has turned out to be doable now that I have two 7-year-old and one 5 year old…a big difference from two 3 year olds and one 2-year-old!!!

So obviously we spent tons and tons of time at the beach in Boca.  We pretty much had one all to ourselves…

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The next best thing to the beach is the pool!

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this kid has some rough life!

As much as the kids love the beach and the pool,  (and literally had to be dragged in by their fair-haired ears each day) they all insist that we visit some of their favorite spots while we are in Boca.

The first one is Gumbo Limbo Nature Center which is right down the road from us.  Kids learn about endangered plants and animals and get to see turtles and other sea creatures.  It is a huge property where we hike around and they love to climb to the top of a structure each year where we try to spot their grandparents home.

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me out of breath!

I have photos of them as babies on these turtles!

I have photos of them as babies on these turtles!

I love it because we can still be outside while visiting Gumbo Limbo and you know I don’t want to step one foot out of that gorgeous Florida sunshine.  Similarly, we can be outside while visiting another spot, Sugar Sand Park. This is a vast park with many amenities.  We explore only a few, like the carousel…

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They all meet the height restrictions this year which means they can go on adult free…happy news for someone like me who tends to get dizzy while standing still!

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There is also a fabulous playground with structures the kids can climb through and areas where they can get can wet.  They love the playground and talk about it throughout the year.

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As if all that isn’t enough, just a few steps away and we enter a FABULOUS children’s museum that’s as great as any we’ve been to…there are two large fully interactive rooms that the kids could literally be entertained in all day long.

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Because this museum satiates our museum needs we’ve never visited but I’ve heard there’s the Boca Raton Children’s Museum as well.

As for eating, oh man, I ate way too much and went way too long without kick boxing!  A few of our favorites include Pizza Time.  You know as New Yorker’s we are very snobby about our pizza, but our visiting Boca tradition is to stop at Pizza Time right after we arrive because the pizza is that good.  There is something about the sauce and the thin crust that has us all loving it (and believe me we are all pizzaed out after eating it two weeks straight during Hurricane Sandy so that’s saying a lot!)

We tried Matteo’s for the first time which was a bit fancy for the kids but they did great.  And, my son has realized his newfound love for fried calamari which he has asked me to pack it for his lunch tomorrow (“Squidward tastes good mom!”) :)

We always go to Duffy’s because it’s very kid friendly and on Wednesdays kids eat free and they have a balloon guy roaming around.

My husband salivates all year for the place we go to the day after we arrive for lunch which is Baja Cafe.  It is the best Mexican food we eat anywhere and we wish we could find a place like this in NY.  Seriously I drool as I type!!!

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On our last night my in-laws sent me and the hubs to dinner without kids to New York Prime.  I’m not a steak eater but my husband enjoyed his and my salmon was great….place was very expensive though…we would have been just as happy going out in flip-flops to Baja Cafe again :) .

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Have you ever been to Boca Raton, Florida?  What have I left out?

A Fall Beach Day in New York

7 Oct

 

 

Well you would never know by today (rainy and chilly) that yesterday was a gorgeous and beautiful day here in Long Island, New York.

You know by now that I am warm weather beach loving girl so when yesterday’s weather magically appeared (forecast was rain…yes I am a weather nerd too) we impulsively decided to head for the beach!

The children were beyond ecstatic and hurriedly got all their accessories together.

They were so happy they didn’t even mind posing for a picture. (My son usually says “Mom don’t put this on Facebook or blog!”)

One of the things I just love about where I live is that we can be at some of the most beautiful beaches in just a 15 minute drive (and of course NYC is just 20 miles away too!).

We chose Jones Beach because there’s a playground that we thought the kids would enjoy again.  The last time we went was when we did this kind of fall beach outing 2 years ago.

But this time we only spent a few minutes at the park because the kids COULD NOT WAIT to get to the water!

I have to apologize for the heavy photo load in this post. I just couldn’t get over the stunning and beautiful scenery and couldn’t stop snapping pictures.

The weather was mild but it was not warm enough for me to venture into wetness!  I sat on the beach in a sweatshirt while the rest of my family seemed unaffected by the wind…the squeals of excitement were heard above all other sounds!


And one of my favorite photos:

When I say we had the beach to ourselves, I really mean it!


Except for a random seagull that is :)

It was truly a great day and it gave us all a high, but it seems so far away now…I’m freezing!

 

Goodbye Summer

3 Sep

I think you can tell I love warm weather, the beach and that summer is my absolute favorite season.  On the flip side, I hate when it ends. I am acutely aware of the days getting shorter and I was freezing today in the 70 degree weather!

Even the kids going back to school is a mixed bag for me.  It’s always challenging getting through the unstructured summer days with them.  And starting tomorrow I will have free time again which I desperately desire.  However, I have a lump in my throat thinking about my baby entering kindergarten and my twins entering second grade, and in our community, going to a “big” school (grades 2-5).

We went to  Labor Day party at a friend’s home tonight to watch fireworks.  On the way over Don Henley’s “The End of the Innocence” came on the radio which added to my emotional mood.

Though I was hesitant to be out at a party on the night before first day of school, I’m glad we did it.  The kids had a really great time and watching amazing fireworks seemed like an appropriate end to the summer.


Perhaps my mixed feelings about school starting are about summer ending also.
How do you feel about end of summer and start of school?

First Day of Summer = Best Day

20 Jun

Oh how I love the summer.

Sure it was over 100 degrees today but you won’t hear me complaining about the heat!  I love when it’s 8:30 p.m. and still light out.  I love short sleeves.  I love feeling warm.  I love the beach!  I love it so much that I picked up the twins early from school today for a beach outing.  (it’s their last week of school and every day is early dismissal at this point anyway!)

We went with my parents.  I’ve mentioned that they moved to NY a couple of months ago.  They are just loving how close they live to the beach and have been dying to get there with the kids.

My parents have endless energy so it turned out to be such a great time.  And it made me very happy there was one adult for each kid because I am usually outnumbered and it’s a little scary still with the kids and the ocean.

I literally had to drag them out of the water after a few hours.  Believe me I didn’t want to leave either but they are so fair and their skin is precious!

I took my parents back to their place and we all went for a swim in their pool which was a great way to clean off the 20 pounds of sand stuck to the kids.

Maybe it was the large dose of Vitamin D i got today, but I was revved up for kickboxing this evening despite the continued 100 degree weather into the night!  While I was there the kids played in the street until almost 9!

We all ended the day sweaty and happy.  Who else is with me on summer being the best season!!!?

Breezy Beach Walking

14 Apr

(Picture heavy post ahead!)

Have I ever mentioned how much I love the beach?

Have you ever done a visualization or meditation exercise where you picture yourself in a most peaceful place?  The beach is that place for me.  I love the ocean. I love the beach.  Before children I spent every summer weekend indulging in my peaceful place.

Now, I focus on relishing in our Florida vacations where we stay right on the beach.  We spend most of the day outside but every night after dinner I suggest a beach walk (especially a good thing to do after all the dining out and big meals).

climbing the rocks is a highlight of our walks

The scenery is amazing and I can’t get enough photos!

The beach is usually empty and ripe for shell searching.

It’s these walks that are my most cherished part of our vacation.

What are your simple, favorite vacation pleasures?

Love the Beach

15 Aug

One of the things I love most about where I live is the proximity to the beach.  In just twenty minutes I can be at some of the most beautiful beaches in NY.  Before children I would spend every summer weekend at the beach.  It’s always been the place where I feel most at peace, must be the Pisces in me!

So naturally once I had kids I couldn’t wait to take them to the beach and re experience some of my much-needed ocean tranquility.

I was deluded!  What kind of peace could I hope to acquire with a 1 year old and two  2 year olds at the ocean!!!  See my little guy holding his hand up?  He tried to manage without getting any sand to touch his skin!  I mean they looked cute and all experiencing it all for the first time but boy were they PIAs!

(I just had to post this picture because it may be the cutest one ever :) )

SO my hopes and dreams were dashed and I was beach less for a couple of years.

However, this summer we’ve gone a couple of times and it’s been great!  The girls are still playing together.

But now for longer and without as much fighting!

It was actually pretty monumental when I found myself relaxing!!!  Of course I had all eyes on them, but I was actually sitting…amazing!  My nephews were there too so the kids were in heaven, especially after they all got ice cream…

Oh it was such a great time, and the best part is that I see the kids loving the beach as much as I do. :)

Do you take your kids to the beach?

Fall at the Beach

27 Nov

It’s been freezing here post Thanksgiving, but a couple of weeks back we had unusually mild weather for November in New York.  The sun was shining so we thought about doing something different.

I grew up in New Jersey.  To get to “the shore” we had to drive at least 2 hours.  The beaches are beautiful but the ride and the traffic not so great.  What I love about where I live now is that there are beautiful beaches within 20 minutes of our house.

So, we decided to take a November stroll on the beach.

I was freezing (it was probably around 59 or 60 degrees and windy), but the kids…I can’t even describe how much they were squealing with absolute delight.

A few people walked by and their faces lit up as it seemed the joy was contagious.  The kids would have completely submerged themselves had we allowed them.  As it was they were drenched and at one point were running around in underpants.  (and yes you know I took photos of that….but I’ll spare you!)

It brought into focus how simple things can bring such delight to an otherwise ordinary day.

You ever do a relaxation excercise and you’re told to visualize a favorite place?  This is what I see.

Last Blast of Summer

9 Sep

I love the beach.  Have you ever done one of those relaxation exercises where you’re supposed to imagine yourself in a peaceful, happy and relaxing place?  That’s what the beach is for me.  But since I’ve had kids, I went from going to the beach every summer weekend, to forcing a visit once per summer.

You know how it is trying to pack up and get your small kids set up to go…..snacks, drinks, towels, umbrella, beach toys, sunblock, etc, etc and it’s all particularly difficult when you have a child with an aversion to sand!

But a couple of weekends ago, we made the trek with some of our friends and it was just great.  We weren’t there 30 seconds before the kids got to playing.

It was one of those recent pre hurricane scary tide days so we were right on top of them in the water, but it didn’t prevent any good times.  They all went non stop for hours.  Going with friends really made the day special and endurable for all.

Although it was a lot of work, the day was an accomplishment…

which was evident only minutes after we loaded up and headed home.

I know I am the only person around who hates fall…..I miss the beach already!

Still Recovering From Vacation

3 Jun

I continue to be very interested in hearing tips on managing vacations with young kids…not that I am planning on going anywhere that requires travel ever again with this brood!

We did  a lot of fun things and really entertained them well all day long. 

First there was this incredible pool.

My MIL got the kids floaties which were fabulous.  They took to the pool better than ever before and you could see how liberating it was for them to “swim”  My husband and I were even able to not be in the pool while they swam which was a first ever.  Of course it was literally like 94 degrees everyday so we were in almost as much as the kids.

Luckily the place was pretty empty.  In the past, the elderly residents would shudder when they saw us approach!

Which reminds me of  the looks we got when we boarded the plane (we chose to board very last).  Each row we passed elicited sighs of relief from those passengers that considered themselves lucky not be seated next to us!

When we got tired of the pool it was just a short walk to the incredible beach.

We searched for shells, built sand castles and swam in the waves.

The water was awesome and brought back fond memories of my childhood beach excursions. 

We did some other things I want to mention for any of you that might be visiting the Boca Raton, FL area with kids.  (Because it took us a couple of visits to figure out good kid things in the area!)

The kids were so excited for our return to Gumbo Limbo.  They vividly remember our visit last year and were begging to go the moment we arrived in Florida.  While they loved looking at the sea life,

 

surprisingly the biggest thrill was climbing a 38 foot observation tower, which they each climbed not once, but twice (at their insistence)! 

Doing this in 94 degree weather was some feat but for sure something they will remember.

We were so lucky to stumble upon Sugar Sand Park.  Not only does it have a great science like playground but there’s also a carousel and children’s museum right in it!  If we lived in Florida we would be visiting weekly.  We were only sorry we didn’t find it earlier in the week.

So actually the vacation was pretty nice.  It was just that darn sleep thing.  Although they were tired, they insisted on bothering each other, jumping on their beds, etc, instead of passing out.  My babysitter seems to thinks that the fact that they are so close together in age, really like triplets, that they have developmental struggles and extra aggression which they let out (constantly!) on each other.  She’s so nice because she pretty much is telling me it’s not from terrible parenting!  I also have to remind myself that twins are not double work (not the greatest choice of words but I can’t think of a better one right now) but more like quadruple.

But I’m also really tired now, and that ‘s when I beat myself up the most, so things will probably look better in the morning.  Taking it easy this weekend (except for the usual birthday party—they are every weekend these days).  Hope you have a good one!

Okay Seriously, How Do You Vacation with Kids?

2 Jun

Most of my friends take 2 or 3 vacations a year, jetting off to Disney or wherever with their kids.  When they come back they look great and rave about the fun times.

Well we are not big vacationers, and we moved earlier this year so it’s been busy, but a few weeks ago we decided to go for it and travel to Florida for sun and beach at my in-laws lovely place.  We figured it would be great, just veg at the pool or beach (right outside the building) all day and wipe the kids out so they get that good ocean sleep.

We were gone a week, and this is basically the face I saw x3 every day.

I mean we truly had the most amazing sunny weather, a beautiful pool and lovely mostly private beach, but these kids found something to bitch and complain about every minute.  My in laws went out of their way to make everything comfy and wonderful for us and in return they were bombarded by whining and tantrums and noise starting at 5:30 a.m and going until 10 p.m.

We watched the sunrise almost everyday.

And this one was amazing.

That was our view…so beautiful.

My husband and I are deliriously exhausted from our vacation.  I know my in-laws think we are the worst parents ever as the kids were completely out of control.  The problem was that all 3 of them shared a room and they just kept each other up all night which resulted in them being sleep deprived which led to biting and tantrums and such.

How do families all stay together in one room at a hotel or something and get any sleep?

Nonetheless, I did get some great pictures (I’ll post some later) and I know we made good memories for the kids. 

The beach happens to be my favorite place in the world so I was deeply appreciative to snatch some quiet moments to myself outside.

I just wonder what we are doing wrong, or maybe I just need to remind myself that traveling with a 4-year-old, 4-year-old and 3-year-old is no easy task for anyone!

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