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2nd Official Tooth Loser is in the House

31 May

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Almost one year after her twin, my 7 and a half-year old finally lost a tooth.  Poor thing has been waiting and waiting as her friends and her baby sister’s friends even, have all been losing teeth while hers wouldn’t budge.  She’s probably the last second grader to have not lost a tooth…until the night before last!

She was so excited and scurried to bed as I struggled to remember what we gave my son.  Do you know many of our friends and peers give 20 bucks per tooth?  I just think that’s excessive.  So I remembered that we were doing 5 dollars for the first tooth and then 3 for every tooth thereafter.  We have a stash of dollar coins for the special occasions.

She was very cool and casual in the morning as she told me the tooth fairy left her money and wondered out loud how come HER BROTHER GOT A LETTER AND SHE DID NOT.  Big, huge mommy fail.  If you know me you know I constantly struggle to make sure my kids are treated equally.  Even when they were babies I was cognizant of when I seemed to be holding one twin more than the other and it translates into all areas.  So this was a glaring oversight on my part that had to be corrected as soon as she got onto the bus!

And thankfully it was and she’s still carrying her letter around. :) Speaking of which, I should probably get the little one’s letter ready NOW!

Does your tooth fairy do anything special? :)

My Baby is 6 Years Old Today

25 May

How can it be?

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I was so blessed to have had the experience of one baby after having twin babies…my little red headed “surprise” who completed the family in a way that we could have never comprehended.

My husband thinks I’m mental but I do get heavy hearted on my children’s birthdays.

I was reminded about this poem and it seemed so relevant to think about today:

On Children Kahlil Gibran

Your children are not your children. They are the sons and daughters of Life’s longing for itself. They come through you but not from you, And though they are with you yet they belong not to you.

You may give them your love but not your thoughts, For they have their own thoughts. You may house their bodies but not their souls, For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow, which you cannot visit, not even in your dreams. You may strive to be like them, but seek not to make them like you. For life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday.

You are the bows from which your children as living arrows are sent forth. The archer sees the mark upon the path of the infinite, and He bends you with His might that His arrows may go swift and far. Let your bending in the archer’s hand be for gladness; For even as He loves the arrow that flies, so He loves also the bow that is stable.

So beautiful…just like my 6 year old :)

with our newest addition to the family...

with our newest addition to the family…

A Girl and her Trademark Hat

18 May

My little one has quite a sense of style, of which I pretty much let her have free reign.  While we were in Florida in March my mother in law took the girls shopping and let them pick out a bunch of costume jewelry and accessories.

The little one picked out a barrette with a pink hat attached that she started wearing in Florida and has been wearing on a regular basis almost ever since.

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She gets loads of comments, compliments, smiles and laughter everywhere we go.

But my husband has been cracking me up consistently referring to her as “Adebisi”.  Any of you out there Oz fans?  Considering that the little one has a sometimes deliquent personality, and now the trademark hat, I guess it’s not completely far-fetched to compare her to Simon Adebisi…!!!?

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I can’t stop laughing :)

Post Mother’s Day (Thoughts and Treats)

16 May

You know I sometimes struggle on Mother’s Day.  I’m not a big holiday person to begin with, not very festive or enthused, and then I have even more contempt for a holiday that seems completely contrived by Hallmark.  I love mothering, and I love the attention my kids give me, but, I can’t help but think, on the day, of those without mothers, those without children, those who have lost children, and how that pain is magnified on that Sunday.   I love Anne Lamott’s take on Mother’s Day too.

So you get where I’m coming from?

But back to Mother’s Day as a mom of three little curly-haired monkeys who are the shining stars in my sky…

I love, love, love the handmade gifts and cards.  My daughter, as she gave me her present, said, “Mrs Solano told us to give you a tissue with the present to catch all your tears”.

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They pull me out of bed at 7 a.m. anxious to show my a “very big surprise”.  They had “made” me breakfast.

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Now, I don’t eat breakfast.  I’m just one of those people who has no appetite in the morning.  But what greeted me was a serving bowl filled with a box of rice krispies with the bottom layer drenched in milk and the top completely dry, a corn muffin, banana, glass of grape juice and a day old paper.  LOVE!!!!!!!!!!!!

This was followed by a visit by my sister and my mother….some good grub and beautiful weather.

Oooh and the day wouldn’t have been complete without someone in the brood tantruming!

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How was your day? :)

World’s Best Mom…

11 May

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“When she buys me toys”

This is reminiscent of my Valentine’s Day card! But either way, totally heart melting :)

I can look at this picture all day long and get continued pleasure from it!!!  The hands, the smiles…ahhhh!

I’ve gotten 80% of my Mother’s Day goods from the kids already because they were so excited.  I’m excited to get a little pampering on Sunday…think there’s any chance in hell of that happening!!? :)

3 Years and 538 Blog Posts Later

10 May

Three years ago today my blog was born!!!

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I was always a journaler so this has been a great outlet for me to record some of the craziness associated with parenting 3 little curly-haired monkeys who are so close in age.  If I didn’t write some of this stuff down I would never believe it could have ever been said nor could I ever remember it down the road.  Like the other night when my 5-year-old, while we are in the car talking about nothing, says, “Mommy my bus driver has a golden tooth and all the rest of the teeth are yellow.”

She tells me she’s concerned he doesn’t brush his teeth :) and then goes on to tell me she’s the best tooth brusher AND nose blower in the house (and best nose picker, I add).

And on the topic of nose picking, that was one of my goals of this blog.  I set out to write my experiences in an honest way without any fakeness about the joy of parenting.  You know I love my kids but I think I’ve also made it clear how some days really suck.  And that’s okay.

Each time a blog year culminates I take the years worth of posts and convert them into a book.  So really, this blog is providing my family with volumes of our family history.

And if you’ve stuck around the whole time, or pop in here and there, let me thank you from the bottom of my heart for taking in an interest in what I have to say.  Is there anything you want me to write about?  Have any questions for me?

Have a great weekend!

Soccer Saturdays

3 May

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All 3 of my little monkeys are playing soccer this season which means our entire Saturdays are spent on the soccer field!
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As long as they are having fun playing, which seems to be the case, then I don’t mind one bit. :)

Are your weekends loaded up with sports?

Bus Stop Limbo

26 Apr

This morning as we walked to the bus stop my 5 year old said, “My new favorite color is white because white makes everything twinkle like the snow.”

Something about that statement almost choked me up.

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Then the three of them started playing limbo while waiting for the bus and it was too much.  I got teary eyed!

Oh I don’t know…I’m a little sleep deprived and sick…but I think it’s just sometimes I want to pause these moments…

It’s beautiful and sunny here.  Enjoy your day. :)

Daddy’s Birthday

24 Apr

The kids were so excited to celebrate their dad’s birthday today.  We met him at the train station where he was the envy of all the other forlorn commuters when my 3 little curly hairs spotted and raced to him to tackle him in a four-way hug.

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When we got home he was presented with a wonderful array of cards and gifts.

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Gifts including 5 children’s library books, a few pieces of Trident gum, and a mini soccer ball. :)

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Then we set out for a Hibachi dinner which seems to be turning into a family tradition.  The kids were so excited to run in and tell the hostess that today is their dad’s birthday!

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It seems to me that he got a lot of good birthday love.

Do you have any family birthday traditions?

When Dad Shops…

21 Apr

 

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Or perhaps I should say tries to shop.

I love these moments. :)

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